I don't like reigi - I love it!

The word reigi consists of two characters: 礼儀 .

Rei, you have heard before - at the beginning and end of class. But rei does not mean bow. The bow is ojigi. (お辞儀))

Rei is an expression of gratitude. The gi, the second character, can be translated as 'ceremony,' so the two sort of give you a sense of what is expected when you put the two together. Reigi is courtesy and etiquette. It is the way to act and be.

It is how we show respect and be polite. Think of the expression "manners maketh man" - it literally costs nothing for us to have manners and be polite. Politeness and etiquette are what separate us from beasts, really.

So how does this apply to what we do in the dojo?

It applied to everything we do. Bowing is reigi. Folding your gi properly after class is reigi. Keeping it clean is reigi. Keeping your nails clean and cut is reigi.

Cleaning the dojo (known as dojo soji - 道場-掃除) is also reigi. Reigi shapes our conduct, our attitude. Because reigi is not something that we are "forced" to do. It is something we do to make us better. It brings order to life. It keeps us in harmony with our training environment. And it gives us a sense of belonging.

But here's the thing - the difference between reigi and simple mimicry of action is intent. Bowing, for example should be done with intent. There must be meaning - heartfelt expression of the actions.

Reigi is more than bowing, dojo cleaning or nail cleaning. Reigi is how you interact with your sensei. Reigi is what you do in class. Reigi is right attitude. Reigi is showing up to class on time. Or if you are late, patiently bowing in, entering and doing your exercises, then waiting to join class. It's listening attentively. And doing your best. And thanking the people who help you.

It also starts before you enter the dojo. It's putting away your shoes. It is hanging up your coat. It's making sure your equipment is off the floor.

For seniors, it is being the role model for juniors. It is helping them navigate the way. It is including them in the group and making them feel a part of the dojo.

Reigi does not extend to what happens on the floor. It is also retrieving and putting equipment away - always in its right place. It is ensuring your weapons are in good repair and treating them with respect. It is cleaning them after use and making sure they are always ready for the next user.

It is respecting the dojo and its inhabitants. It is about respecting yourself.

So, follow the dojo rules. Practice them. Live them.

And in case you think that reigi is only in the dojo. You would be wrong. There is a Japanese saying that should solve that for you  One can never be too polite  : 親しき仲にも礼儀あり 

Thank your friends for helping you out. Greet your parents, your neighbours, your teachers, your boss. Help fold clothes. Load or unload the dishwasher. Keep your room and bathroom clean. Again, being polite costs nothing.

And remember, manners may maketh man.  But reigi maketh a karateka.

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